Track 14 · Not Fixing, Just Listening
Dad’s Been Here Before
Track 14 from Not Fixing, Just Listening.
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Track 14 on Not Fixing, Just Listening. Duration: 3:29.
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Lyrics
I thought he didn’t get it.
Turns out… he remembered.
Seen me slam doors, same ones he slammed before
I’m pacing my room, world on my back
He nods like, “Yeah… I remember that.”
He half-smiles like he heard that sound
Says “I won’t preach, I won’t tell you what to do”
Then pauses like he’s choosing words he already lived through
Didn’t scare me straight, just drew a line
Said “I chased that feeling, thought it was fate”
“Turned out I was just scared and running late”
He’s recognizing himself.
Same doubts, different door
He ain’t saying I’m wrong
He’s saying he knows that road
Same storm, older scars
He’s not trying to control my life
He’s trying to save me some miles
Feels weak to listen, feels strong to fall
But every warning he gives me calm
Like he’s handing me armor, not sounding alarms
Where ego talks loud and patience falls apart
Says “I lost friends chasing proof”
“Lost time trying to look bulletproof”
‘Cause he wasn’t flexing, he wasn’t cool
He was vulnerable, straight, no mask
Like “I survived it — you don’t have to crash”
Experience don’t yell.
It recognizes patterns.
Same fear, different war
He’s not telling me who to be
He’s showing me what it costs
Same pride, same fire
He’s not killing my dreams
He’s teaching me how to drive ‘em
Maybe it’s memory with love
Maybe he sees the cliff ‘cause
He already climbed back up
But I listen closer when he talks now
Not ‘cause he’s right about everything
But ‘cause he earned the right to be wrong
But I respect the scars he’s got intact
If he says “slow down”, I check my speed
‘Cause he’s not scared of me — he’s scared for me
And I carry that with pride
I’ll walk my path, I’ll make my calls
But I’m not too tough to take advice
And one day, maybe I will too
And I’ll recognize that look in some kid’s eyes
And say “Yeah… I remember you.”
He remembered me.
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What this song means
The emotional core of 'Dad’s Been Here Before' is the complex interplay of vulnerability and understanding that exists between a parent and child, acknowledging feelings of doubt and fear. It holds space for the shared human experience of grappling with personal struggles while seeking guidance, as highlighted in lines like 'He ain’t judging me… He’s recognizing himself.' This song speaks directly to anyone feeling lost or overwhelmed, offering the comfort of knowing that wisdom often comes from shared scars and life lessons.
William Cloudborn crafted this song to explore the delicate balance between pride and humility in the face of parental wisdom. Through lines like 'Experience don’t yell. It recognizes patterns,' he illustrates the importance of listening to those who have navigated similar paths, aiming to foster a sense of connection and legacy. He wants listeners to understand that acknowledging their struggles is not a sign of weakness, but rather a step towards growth and acceptance, as encapsulated in the realization that 'I’m not too tough to take advice.'
This song can serve as a soothing companion during moments of uncertainty, such as after a difficult conversation or when facing self-doubt. It resonates deeply during quiet drives or reflective evenings, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their experiences. By inviting them to hear the gentle wisdom of a parent who has faced similar challenges, it offers a grounding presence that encourages both introspection and the acceptance of guidance, fostering a sense of peace amidst life's chaos.