Track 10 · Relationships are Hard by Nature
I Was Listening, Just Not Talking
Track 10 from Relationships are Hard by Nature.
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Track 10 on Relationships are Hard by Nature. Duration: 3:53.
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Like I wasn’t there anymore.
But sometimes silence
is just the way I stay.
Every word carrying the weight of the day
I went quiet, eyes on the floor
Trying to hold it all the right way
You thought I left the room
Thought my mind packed up and ran
But I was still right there beside you
Just sorting what I can
Old me would jump in too early
Say the wrong thing, miss the mark
New me slows the moment down
Listens first, inside my heart
Some people think within
But I was still right there
Just ‘cause I wasn’t talking
Didn’t mean I didn’t care
I was listening, just not talking
Trying to understand
I don’t disappear when I go quiet
That’s just how I am
Like a door slowly closing tight
I hear silence like a workshop
Where I’m fixing things inside
You read meaning in the pauses
I’m just choosing every word
‘Cause I know once I speak it
It can’t be unheard
I’m learning how to signal better
So you don’t feel alone
You’re learning that my quiet
Isn’t leaving — it’s my tone
Just speaking different ways
But I was still right there
Holding every word you said
Like something I should care for
I was listening, just not talking
Not checked out, not gone
Sometimes being present
Means staying calm and holding on
Sometimes it looks like space
Sometimes love is sitting still
So the right words can take their place
But I never moved at all
I was right here, taking it in
Didn’t want to let it fall
I was listening, just not talking
Still choosing you, still staying near
We don’t show it the same way
But we’re both right here
Sometimes it’s effort.
Next time I’ll tell you sooner…
I’m here.
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What this song means
At its emotional core, 'I Was Listening, Just Not Talking' holds space for the often misunderstood silence that accompanies deep thought and emotional processing. It speaks to those moments when you feel disconnected from someone you care about, yet you’re fully present in your own way, grappling with feelings and thoughts that are difficult to articulate. If you've ever felt judged for your quietness or misunderstood in your intentions, this song validates that experience and reminds you that presence can take many forms.
William Cloudborn is articulating the complexities of communication in relationships, especially for those who process internally rather than verbally. Through lines like 'Silence isn’t absence. Sometimes it’s effort,' he conveys a desire for understanding and compassion in how we relate to one another's different modes of being. He wants listeners to realize that just because someone isn’t speaking doesn’t mean they aren’t engaged or caring; it’s an invitation to recognize and appreciate the nuances of emotional presence.
This song can serve as a gentle companion during those everyday moments when silence feels heavy or when misunderstandings arise, like after a hard morning or during a tense conversation. It encourages listeners to embrace their quietness without shame, offering reassurance that they are not alone in their inner struggles. Whether you're on a quiet drive or reflecting after an argument, this song brings comfort by affirming that listening and presence can manifest in subtle, yet powerful ways.